How can I make sure we keep things confidential and avoid unnecessary topics?

One of the best ways to create safety in a group is by setting clear expectations from the start. Establishing group norms not only protects confidentiality but also helps everyone relax and engage more openly.

You might consider beginning each session with a reminder like this:

“As we begin, let’s remember the promises we make to one another:”

We listen well and speak with kindness and respect—no put-downs, judgment, or gossip.
What’s shared here stays here.
We give grace for our differences and focus on what unites us.
We make space so everyone has a chance to share.
Everyone is welcome to speak, and no one is pressured. This is a safe space.

Repeating these simple norms regularly sets the tone and helps people feel confident their words will be honored.

Leaders, how do you remind your group that confidentiality and respect matter?

Leaders, what do you think?